Common Questions

• What is Merge?

  Merge is a premarital discipleship ministry designed for dating or engaged couples. You will learn God’s design for marriage and process next steps as you continue to grow in your relationship. It is a chance to seek wisdom and receive counsel about marriage in a safe, fun, and authentic environment. It addresses common questions and challenges from a biblical perspective. 

• Is merge premarital counseling?

  Merge is not premarital counseling. Our leaders are mentors not counselors. However, we do believe Merge can equip couples to prepare for marriage. It is a requirement before a Well pastor will officiate a wedding.

  For premarital counseling, we recommend The Well Counseling Center. They offer affordable and professional individual and/or premarital counseling from a Christian worldview. You can find out more information on their website here.

• What does a typical night of merge look like?

  Couples are placed in groups that consist of 3-4 couples, with a mentor couple assigned to each group. Each week you will sit with your group at a table and listen to a teaching. You will then discuss with your group the teaching as well as the weekly homework. 

• How do I sign-up?

  You must register for this class, when registration is open. We offer merge 2-3 times a year. Check our website for dates. If the registration is not open, we have an interest list for the next class that you can join. If you join the interest list, you will be notified via email, once the registration has opened. Space is limited.

• Do I have to be a member of The Well to join?

  No, you do not. 

• What commitment do I have to make?

  Merge is an 8-week class that meets once a week for 2 hours (see times/date on website). We also encourage couples to have a one-off night for a social gathering to bond and get to know your group.